Hi ,
Lately, I’ve been sitting with a question I never expected to ask.
What if my best running is behind me?
I don’t mean it dramatically. Just honestly. I’ve looked back at years where I ran marathons, chased times, and surprised myself with what my body could do. And then I look at now. Slower. Shorter. More careful. Less
certain.
Maybe you’ve had that moment too.
Not comparing yourself to others. Comparing yourself to you.
Injury. Illness. Burnout. Life. Age. Sometimes it’s not one big thing, just a quiet accumulation that changes how running feels. And with that can come a deeper worry.
If I’m not who I was… do I still count?
Here’s what I’m learning, slowly.
Running was never just about
pace. It was about showing up when it would’ve been easier not to. About clearing my head. About feeling like myself, even when everything else felt messy.
Those things haven’t gone anywhere.
If your runs are shorter now, they still count.
If walking has replaced running some days, that still counts.
If your only goal is consistency, not improvement, that still counts.
What counts changes. That doesn’t mean it
disappears.
You don’t have to chase your past to honour it. You don’t have to prove you’re still worthy of calling yourself a runner. And you don’t have to decide what the future looks like right now.
You just have to keep showing up in the way that fits your life today.
I wrote a longer piece about this. Not with answers, but with permission.
If this question has been sitting quietly with you too, you might find
something familiar in it.
You can read it here.
cheers
Gary
Runners Gateway
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